Dr Seuss has the best quotes. In all the silliness of his stories, there is endless wisdom and truth, much of which makes far more sense than anything else going on in our world right now. Sometimes we need reminding that we are all unique and different – and that that is a GOOD thing – not something to be hidden away or changed. Who wants to be like everyone else? Not me! Although a little bit of “normal” would be nice from time to time. Just so I can interact with people on a regular basis and not have them wondering what planet I’m from, ha ha.
I created this collage for a special family member who celebrated a birthday last week. I worked on it for a few weeks, in between doing other things, and got it finished just in time. I hope she liked it. And can ignore the dots I smudged after the last word 🙂
Hope you are all having a good day – thank you for stopping in x
What do you love about your home? For me it is cosiness. I don’t like big, open plan homes with lots of space and sparse furnishings – they seem very cold and unfriendly to me. There are times when I wish I could be more Spartan in my decorating style and live in a less cluttered space, but that wouldn’t be me and I wouldn’t feel as comfortable. I like colour and pattern. I like being surrounded by things that are special to me, or have been gifted to me by someone I love. My home isn’t very sophisticated or adult looking. I have nice artworks, but then they are, quite often, accompanied by something silly or incongruous. I have lots of vintage items, but then they’re sitting with something from Kmart or a discount store. I don’t care – it’s whatever makes you happy, right?
My house is small. But that’s ok. My hoarding habits are probably better being contained anyway 🙂 But I do like cosy. I like to feel cocooned. I like to feel safe and enclosed. I like to look around the room and see all my “precious things” – they have memories attached to them and they’re important to me, even if they’re not “on-trend” or matching or stylish. I have started culling a little bit – as much as I like my stuff, even I have to concede that I do have a lot of junk. But if something has a real emotional pull – I keep it. It’s there, in my life, for a reason.
So, what makes a house a home, to me…..
- Colour. I like white – I really do – but I would always pair it with lots of bright colour. Shabby-chic white I love – because it’s distressed and homely and paired with lots of pretty colour, wood finishes and interesting textures. But stark white, I can’t do. Plus it shows up dirt too easily ha ha.
- Plants. I am not a great gardener, as I have pointed out before. But I do like lots of plants around the place. Greenery is good. As long as it stays green 🙂
- Soft furnishings. I like a cushion or two. Embroidered tablecloths. Throw rugs and patchwork quilts. Especially when they’re handmade ones. Curtains I can take or leave – at the moment I am stuck with the ones that came with the house – but I HATE vertical blinds with a passion. Unfortunately, I have those too. They will be going as soon as I can afford to get rid of them.
- Candles. I definitely have a bit of a pyromaniac streak. But I love the soft light they give (hey, I’m in my 40s – I need all the soft lighting I can get!) and they create such a nice ambience. I love the fragranced ones – vanilla, berry and gingerbread are my favourites. My house always smells like cookies.
- Books. I am a bit ridiculous with books. I have LOADS. But I just love having them around me. A house without books is not a home. For me, anyway.
- Pets. This is one aspect that I am currently lacking in. It’s so sad. For most of my life I was surrounded by animals. Now I don’t even have a budgie or a goldfish. I am working on getting cats though. One day (in my fantasy world) I will have a property large enough for geese and dogs and rabbits and chickens, cows, and sheep again. One day.
- Art. Whether it be a family heirloom worth thousands, or a cute crayon scribble created by a special munchkin in your life, it’s important to have art around the place. Things that inspire you or just make you smile.
- Music. I always have music playing. I have to have at least the radio on when I’m cooking or creating. It helps to block the world out and focus you inward. Plus, I like to sing. I would die if anyone else heard me, but it is one of life’s joys, having a sing-a-long to a favourite tune. As long as the neighbours don’t complain, it’s all good.
- Nooks. I nearly bought a house last year purely because it had a reading nook with a balcony overlooking the garden. Oh I loved it. But I did not like the neighbourhood or the low popcorn ceiling (ugh!) or the ugly dark grey carpet (I was never sure if it had originally been grey or not…). I really struggled to let go of that reading nook though – it was glorious. I’m still dreaming about it now. I would have spent my life in there, snoozing in the sunshine or pondering the Universe. Sigh. But nooks are important. Every home should have a cosy little corner somewhere. A place you automatically go to recharge and recoup.
- Photos. I think it’s important to have photos in your home. Family photos, travel photos, childhood photos – they’re all important. They remind you where you’ve come from and where you’re going.
Most of all, your home should be a place of sanctuary and security. It should be the place you feel happy to fall asleep in. The place you can’t wait to get to at the end of the day. Granted, I am a bit of a hermit, and I probably spend more time at home than most people. Because I need lots of me time and space, anti-social wench that I am 🙂
My seven-year-old niece had a sleepover at my place on the weekend. She slept with me (much more fun than sharing with Daddy – he snores!) and although I copped a few kicks to the back during the night, it was nice to share my space with that precious little person. Having her be comfortable and feel secure with me is what home is really about. I want my home to feel cosy and welcoming to everyone who visits me. Especially the little ones. That is way more important to me than having the most expensive furniture or crockery that matches my napkins. Because home, most of all, should be about family – whatever family means to you.
Hope your home is a happy place today and always.
I have a new baby nephew! He’s very cute (as babies tend to be) and everyone is besotted and spending a lot of time gazing at him, taking photos, and generally coo-ing in his direction. What is it about babies that makes everyone go a bit nutty?
In trying to help out my brother’s family, I baked a few meals to pop in the freezer and a few little treats to go in school lunchboxes, for bub’s four older siblings. One such treat included these muesli bars (granola bars if you’re in the U.S.) that I modified from a recipe found at http://superhealthykids.com/. I have to confess, I made the munchkins a batch and then, unwisely, made myself some. I am not good at stopping at one treat – I will generally convince myself that I can have just one more, and just one more…and so on. I am a bit binge-y these days. I am consuming my emotions in vast quantities. Which translates to having no willpower whatsoever and basically just shoving food into my face, regardless of how large my thighs are getting or whether I can do up my pants.
At any rate, these muesli bars are quite delicious and super simple to make. I was looking for something I could give the kids that was nut-free (because their school has a ban on foods containing nuts due to the rise in allergies) and this fit the bill. Coconut is not a true nut (it’s considered a fruit, technically) so isn’t on the banned list (but do check to see if it’s ok with your school and allergy-prone kiddiwinks). You should also check to see that the seeds used are not from a plant which also processes nuts.
I added flax meal to the original recipe to incorporate some extra fibre. You could easily add some chopped dried fruit, dessicated coconut etc. Choc chips would be nice too 🙂
- 2 cup – quick oats, dry
- 2/3 cup – raw caster sugar
- 1 cup – flour, wholemeal
- 1/2 teaspoon – bicarb soda
- 1/2 teaspoon – baking powder
- 1 teaspoon – cinnamon
- 1 teaspoon – salt
- 1 teaspoon – vanilla extract
- 1/2 cup – honey
- 2 tablespoon – coconut oil, melted if it has turned solid
- 1/4 cup – sunflower seeds
- 1/4 cup – pumpkin seed kernels
- 2 tablespoons ground flax meal
- Mix all ingredients and press into rectangular pan, (mine was 32cm x 23cm) lined with baking paper. The mixture will be really dry, kinda like crumble mixture. That’s ok – that’s how it should be. Trust me.
- Press mixture right to edges of pan. Flatten with a fork.
- Bake at 160 degrees celsius for 20 minutes or until edges are browned. Take out and before it cools, score lightly into bars (mine made 15). This makes it MUCH easier to break them into bars later. Otherwise you just have a crumbly bunch of, well, crumbs, everywhere.
- Once completely cool, break or cut into bars and store them in an airtight container.
Superhealthykids.com has lots of simple, tasty, healthy recipes to try. Check them out!
Thanks for dropping by. Have an awesome week 🙂